Olivia had never had much of a dating life. She was always into school and her animals. She was popular but not much activity in the romantic part of her life. She confided in her first roommate at college that she had kissed one boy.
Around the last part of her junior year, Olivia had met a guy and they met for coffee. He raped her. She went into shock. She had never had a concept of rape, other than the word. She didn't tell anyone. Her psyche began to shatter.
She fell deeper into video games. She specifically played one with the dungeons and dragons. She felt this energy was consistent with the darkness she had experienced.
One day she finally beat someone she had never thought she could beat, Ronny. He was so popular in the chat room and the super high scorer. He congratulated her and they began communicating privately. He was older than her. More experienced but somehow, she trusted him with her secrets. She felt he could guide her through the darkness.
He texted her often which made her smile. Sometimes they communicated all night long. She was still going to school, so she was without sleep for many days. She would forget to eat, and she wanted to be thin and look good for him. Each morning she connected with him through video chat. Each night she connected again. She told him about the rape. He did not seem surprised but listened intently to the details. He began to speak sexually to Olivia. She welcomed it, as she thought the rape had damaged her.
She felt so lucky to have met him. He lived 1200 miles away, so they had not met in person, but she wanted to meet him soon.
Her malnourished, sleep-deprived state of being was causing loss of memory, some incoherent speaking and when she did sleep, she had nightmares.
She was seeing a neurologist, but he had found nothing to explain her symptoms.
Her parents were growing increasingly annoying with their concern. She just wanted to escape her life. At this point she had exchanged 750 text messages with Ronny. They had spoken multiple times a day for over a year. Ronny asked her to send a selfie each morning as she prayed to him. She texted him You are my god! No one knew about him. He and the rape were her secrets.
By this time, her parents had spent $100,000 on her education and expenses. She was accepted into medical school upon her graduation. Then, one month before her graduation, Ronny showed up with a U-Haul trailer and told her to pack her things. Olivia, Sam (her dog), and Ronny drove off, they were going 1,200 miles away to his home. Olivia did not tell anyone where she was going. Luckily, one of her brothers saw them leaving and got a license plate number.
He called his parents. Shocked again and scared, they tried to find Olivia. They hired a Private Investigator to locate Olivia and her beloved dog Sam.
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